Don’t put a label on it.

 

 

我喜欢Summer.尽管在Tom一往情深的对比下,她显得有些冷酷无情。从头至尾手握这段感情的生杀大权。难怪在分手时她将自己比喻成了用匕首刺死自己女友的Sid Vicious.

 

她说:

 

I just wanna tell you that I’m not really
looking for anything serious. Is that ok? Casual. Take it slow. No pressure.

 

You don’t believe that a woman could enjoy
being free and independent? I just don’t feel comfortable being anyone’s
girlfriend. I don’t actually feel comfortable being anyone’s anything. I like
being on my own. Relationships are messy, and people’s feelings get hurt. Who
needs it?

 

对她的随性颇有共鸣。不要和我谈太远的未来。Don’t even put a label on me. 缺乏安全感也罢,逃避也罢。只是想用自己的节奏慢慢体会。

 

 

快乐的时候她亦是投入的,她笑着对TomYou’re fun.的真诚,在IKEA牵手的温馨,讨论音乐时那种默契相投,直至分享梦境和心底的世界。可是她给不了更多。于Tom而言简直是莫名其妙的戛然而止。

 

曾几何时听到过一种说法:不要做女孩的No.1 or 2. 因为大多情况无法收支平衡,全情投入的结果是竹篮打水一场空,白白成了女孩情场征服记录单上的条目。——不是没有道理的。

 

有几个女孩能坚定不移地确定自己的Mr. Right呢?兜兜转转,用情深浅,爱恋心痛。大多还是直觉性的选择,说得玄乎些不过是缘分。机缘巧合,也是两个人对待感情和人的成熟程度。Summer说某天醒来,便有了和Tom在一起时不曾有的一种确定感。Tom无形中帮助了Summer的成长,Tom不是不好,只是出现得过早。于是有了一个亚麻色头发的男孩接过接力棒,抱得美人归,仿佛Tom只是促成了另一段感情的完满。

 

There’s no such thing. 如果说Summer懂得了宿命自有安排,相信了缘分。那么Tom在影片的末尾学会了勇敢地去制造缘分。

 

*If Tom had learned anything, it was that you can’t ascribe great cosmic
significance to a simple earthly event. Coincidence. That’s all anything ever
is. Nothing more than coincidence.

 

It’s not a love story. It’s just a story
about growing up of boys and girls.
感谢所有的他,她,不仅陪我们走过一程,也教会我们成长。

 

Don’t put a label on me. 请,只是用心体会。

2 comments

  1. 弄堂里的猪 · · Reply

    过来表示,对然没有看过,但是节选的段落很不错~

  2. 可是有时候是反的…

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